Valentine’s Day is the most romantic day of the year! It’s a day where every woman wants to be acknowledged above and beyond what she does on a normal daily basis. It’s a day where she can feel special, feel the fluttery butterflies that so rarely appear in her hectic world of husband, partner, boyfriend, careers, kids, friends, responsibilities, and the never ending “to do” list that just won’t ever go away!
Every woman deserves to be recognized, pampered, and showered with extraordinary little adoring ways to fill their love tanks on Valentine’s Day. There are so many endless ways for valentines to feel special that there should never be any excuses to minimize, forget, or ignore the importance of this holiday!!!
Women of all ages, shapes, and sizes whether married or single want and dream of at least one token of romance delivered to them on this most romantic celebrated day of the year. It can be an elaborate romantic dinner for two, couples massage, or simply a card, hand written love letter, perfume, heart shaped box of chocolates, or a vase filled with their favorite flowers! All of which stir up feelings of hot, exciting anticipation and dormant passions. In these romantic moments shared, all chores, troubles, dealings with exhaustion, loneliness, and inadequacies are momentarily forgotten and LOVE becomes the essence in our hearts, filling us up with feelings of unique womanly specialness.
And in this KlackyLee moment, I realized that women are not that hard to figure out or please for that matter, and that men have been known to make us more complicated than we really are! As long as our love tanks continue to get filled not just one day a year, but on a day to day basis in the love languages that we understand and feelings of gratitude and thankfulness expressed sincerely for all that we do, we are usually good to keep on going! Now me? I’m going to thoroughly enjoy my new perfume, long stemmed red roses, feeling the love and try NOT to get myself all bent out of shape because my Johnny didn’t get me my heart shaped box full of my favorite dark chocolates!!!!
Happy Valentine’s Day to all the women who have received their token of Love but most especially to those women who have been forgotten today! God Bless you all.
Barbie says
I am so glad you are sharing your thoughts with us via this blog site – since you don’t live close anymore – Valentines Day is a tough day for anyone who doesn’t have that special person in her life to do all those nice things – I was gone in Las Vegas on a business trip during Valentines – and was fortunate to be with friends that evening and see Donny Osmond perform at the Flamingo and even got some special attention from him which made my night ! When I returned home – there were no cards, no flowers, nothing … When I think of all the people I have loved, and given so much time and love to over the years – it is just hard to feel forgotten and NOT loved – and Valentine hype just excerbates those feelings! I do know that by loving others is the best way to get over feeling unloved for oneself – but sometimes …it is just hard .
KlackyLee says
Dear Barbie, you are spot on when you referred to how we can overcome feelings of not feeling loved by remembering all the people who are so important in our lives and how we are all interconnected on so many levels that run deeper than one over-emphasized day of the year! I only wish there were more women who could understand that concept and have the ability to move forward past the feelings of dissapointments and emptiness. During my years of living alone and strong as I am in always seeing the deeper “meaning” I too, have found myself falling into the trap of loneliness during Holidays and special days…..sometimes not having a significant other to share those moments with on a more intimate level can bring on feelings of longing to have that, “special someone”, so one can feel special and loved! It’s a natural reaction! I am hoping through my own written personal experiences, I can help women who so often get trapped in the negative dynamics of their own feelings of frustration, dissapointments, bouts of loneliness, or heartaches brought on by “life’s “ own circumstances see the silver lining and find their own joy more often than not! Xoxo
Gayle says
To my dearest friend. Your words have a way that tell an amazing story that all women can relate to. I have had the privilege of getting first hand advice from you that always makes me feel better. I can’t wait for more pearls of wisdom and know that everyone that reads your stories will be inspired, laugh and cry and wanting more. Love you
KlackyLee says
Thank you Gayle for all the support and friendship you have shown me all these years! I am always happy to run my stories by you for any feedback you have so often given me! I am the privileged one when you come to me to share your heart! I too, can’t wait to share more of my stories, videos, and beautimus paintings to all who have the desire to come back and be part of my klackylee world! Love you too! Xoxo
Christine Spillman says
Well me and my husband celebrated the day before valentines. It was great. We wanted to just stay in and enjoy each other’s company. It was so much phone. And yes you don’t have to always get that box of chocolates. All I wanted was just to spend time with my honey who is an amazing guy. He did get me beautiful flowers which I enjoyed. He always tells me he’s a lucky man. Yes he is. But I’m a lucky women because he has treated me so good.
KlackyLee says
My dear Christine, it makes me truly happy to hear how you and your husband spent Valentines Day together! It sounds like your Love tank got filled to the brim with special moments and tokens of Love from your man! And at the end of the day for you both to feel “Lucky” is a blessing! I hope you come back to my klackylee world and read more of my up-coming stories, videos, and new art work and share your comments and feelings again with me! Xoxo
Diane McWhorter says
Klackylee is spot on with her observation that women have complexities, but when it comes to making us happy, it is not complicated. Not at all! Just a bit of attention, appreciation, and acknowledgement goes so very far and means very much to us.
KlackyLee says
Thank you Diane for sharing your thoughts on how you related to certain parts of my “Valentines” story and how women really do just want to be appreciated and not taken for granted! I hope your Valentine’s Day filled up your love bank with sweet memories for you to reflect on and you received at least one token of love from someone special! XoXo
Nancy says
Happy Valentines Day! We had a wonderful night. So glad I was off tonight ❤️
KlackyLee says
Thanks for sharing how wonderful your Valentines Night was! Not having to work always makes everything better! XoXo
Brooke says
This was the very first Valentines thst my husband and I spent without kids in 11 years. We didn’t make reservations, we didn’t even care! We were together, without our precious yet demanding littles (four of them)…we were together, and it proved to be the greatest gift. We grabbed dinner with an hour wait, we ordered appetizers, dinner and dessert, and relished every minute of alone time! Sometimes Valentines Day can totally change according to the season of life you are in. The season we are in, three hours away felt like a vacation!
KlackyLee says
Brooke, As I read your experience shared with your husband on Valentines evening, I could feel how good it was for you both to sneak away from your sweet children for those three precious hours. What a loving memory you can now place in your hearts to be cherished forever! And I liked how you made reference to experiences in our lives can change according to what season of life we are in! So true and yet so profound! Thank you for sharing your Valentine moments with me! XoXo
Sue says
Loved your 1st story!
KlackyLee says
Thank you Sue, for taking the time to enjoy my site and leave me a comment about my story! I am happy if you are happy! XoXo
Heike says
Love this
KlackyLee says
Thank you Heike! I hope your love spills over to check out my new video and story coming up next week on my site! I look forward to reading more of your comments and feelings you care to share with me! Xoxo
Marie says
I love your klakiness
KlackyLee says
Well, I must admit that your reaction to my Klackklack klackiness is just how I love to leave people feeling! Thank you for checking out my website and feel free to come back for another dose of my Klackklack! I have soo much more to share! XoXo
Julie says
So well said KlacklyLee, I do feel that the key is just to feel loved and appreciated and remembered.
Enjoy your perfume and long stemmed roses…You can buy your chocolates another day. I am proud of you for reeling it in as you stated. Too funny! He is one lucky man and just let you know that by showering you with special gifts.
KlackyLee says
I am pleased that you understand and can relate to what my message is all about, Julie! I don’t have all the answers on relationships and I would be crazy to think that I know everything about the dynamics of men VS women! The little bit I do know and wrote about in my “Valentines” story comes by gathering experiences I have lived through and many women have shared with me. My husband IS a lucky man…. I can’t help but think it’s because he has a Klackklack to share his life with!! XoXo